Here is something I wrote..  It's about change and how I view relationships.. It's called "The Gentleman You Don't Know".. : "Hello.. I'm the guy you always smile at, I'm the one who opens your door for you, the one who listens to you when you need someone to talk to. I'm the one who gives you a shoulder to cry on, an arm around your shoulder when you need comfort, the hug you seek when you are sad and hurting. I'm the gentleman in your life. But know this.. I have feelings too. I hate to see you sad, I wonder why you constantly put yourself in relationships where you get yourself hurt by the 'Bad Boy' you have always wanted, I see into your heart and mine breaks when yours breaks. I'm happy when you're happy, and I want to ease your heartache when you suffer. But sadly, to you I am not your everything. I have much to offer. My heart wants to be loved by you. I want to wake up next to you everyday and be the first smile on your face. I want to hold you at night and let you know you're safe and protected. I want to be your strength, your smile, and the reason you love.. Until that day, i'll still be right here.. But! Don't be hurt or surprised one day when you find my heart belonging to someone else. I may be a gentleman, but I won't sit on the dock and wait for the ship to come to port.. Someone, somewhere needs the love I have to give, and if she comes along, I will join her in her journey.. So, if you have doubts and want to take a chance on what I have to offer, now's the time.. Don't let me get away.. For then, i'll be the gentleman you don't know.."